My father didn't mind whom I married, so long as I could stand on my own two feet and wasn't dependent on my husband. 只要我能够自食其力,不依附于自己的丈夫,嫁给谁我父亲倒是并不介意。
Although she does economically dependent on her husband, she is spiritually independent. 虽然在经济上依赖于她的丈夫,但在精神上她拥有自己独立的空间。
But under this arrangement women are still dependent on their men & a husband may simply ignore his commitment to an abstract idea at any time. 然而,在这种安排之下,女性仍然依附于她们的男人&丈夫可以随时将他的承诺化为一个抽象的概念。